Guys, many of you who have participated in The Quest for Authentic Manhood may remember Session 21: Twenty Five Ways to Be a Servant-Leader. I think this is one of the most compelling sessions in all of Men's Fraternity. Here are two of the items from the list of 25. A servant-leader initiates meaningful family traditions- A servant-leader plans fun outings for the family on a regular basis.
Gentlemen, the Christmas season is a great time for you to step up to real servant-leadership that will bless your family for many years. Here are a couple of ideas...
Start a tradition of taking your children out to shop for mom. You may take them as individuals or in a group. But make this a memorable experience. Our kids enjoy going out to shop for Stacy! The boys get antsy and complain when we're looking at clothes but Hannah just loves it. Their reactions are even stronger when we go into a 'smelly' place like Bath and Body Works. The boys are gasping for air and Hannah basks in delight. When Stacy and her sisters were small, my father-in-law started the tradition of taking each daughter out individually for dinner and shopping. Stacy has already celebrated her 28th birthday several times, but each year she goes on a Christmas date with her dad. Our family always goes Christmas caroling. Typically with another family, or a small group. We share a couple of songs on the porches of friends and family and hand off a small bag of cookies. The recipients are blessed and we are blessed with wonderful memories. (We've even been known to wander around our neighborhood in July singing Beach Boys tunes. We call this Summer Caroling but that's a different story!) Perhaps you read the account of Christ's birth on Christmas Eve or bundle up and enjoy the Tacky Light Tour but the bottom line is this. Dad, be intentional and strategic in creating memories for your family. You don't have to be super creative or extravagant, just do it. By the way... make sure you use your traditions and activities to point your family toward Christ! |